Unexpected.

People always tend to make plans for their lives. They plan on what they're gonna do on the coming weekend, plan which college they're going to attend, plan what job they're gonna have, and basically, plan everything that they can in order to have an organized life. People plan so that they don't lost track of where they want to go in life. But sometimes, plans never go according to plan. You picture and create a perfect plan in your head and when you finally set out in reality, your plan ends up becoming an epic fail. Sometimes plans backfires and you're left with uncomfortable moments of your life because you never got use to improvising. People spend most of their lives planning, and failing, and creating back-up plans after another because their plans always ends up failing at some point. I think I've learned my lesson about planning certain things. Sometimes, it's better to just go with the flow. Ride the wave and see where it takes you and adapt to the changes it may bring to your life, whether it may be good or bad. You see, I met this girl. First time I met her she didn't even cross my mind after I saw her. She was just that girl that you notice when her friends are around or if she's around as well. I never once thought I'd plan to date her or even take her seriously until recently. I think the best about dating her is that it was unexpected. I never saw her in my future, nor did I told myself that, "I'm gonna get with her." None of those things even occurred when I met her. But the unexpected happened. One morning I woke up, and next thing you know I'm holding her hand. I guess after that scenario, things change on my end. I saw her in a whole new way. Suddenly she's this girl that I can't stop talking to day and night. Next thing I know I'm hanging out with her friends, bonding and actually getting to know them. After that, I was hooked. I think her friends made me want to get to know her even more. The fact that they welcomed me made me feel comfortable about chasing after her. Then next thing I know I'm going to parties with her friends and her. But I think what made me really interested in her is when I started going to church with her. The vibe that I get while we're at church at 5 in the morning is just mesmerizing. I feel so comfortable when I'm standing, sitting, or even kneeling beside you. I feel like one of those adult couples who goes to church every Sunday. Those are like the real, serious couples. I like that feeling. See, the thing is, I never planned for any of this to happen. The opportunities just presents themselves and I either take them or leave them. And I'm glad that I took every opportunity that was offered to me to be closer to you. And now suddenly I'm meeting your parents today? I may be shitting bricks right now but I know when I come over in a few hours, and I see you, I'll be fine. I'll be fine because I know no matter what happens, I'll still have you. And today you actually met my Mommy. You did kinda fail because you're to damn shy and she was too damn talkative about my past relationships..... Hopefully that didn't scare you away. My mother has a weird sense of humor like me. But overall, what I want to say is that, I think that the best things in life are the ones we never see coming. The ones that surprises us and actually takes our breaths away. And now, I can't stop myself from falling for you. Don't worry, this is not one of those few months thing. I know a lot of people have told us both that, those sweet moments are just in the beginning, but we'll beat the odds. I know we can. So, I end this love&adventure with this favorite quote of mine,

Life is not measured by the number of breaths, but by the moments that take our breath away.

With every word,